3i EMBRACING ME
“Your future starts with understanding yourself. When your identity, influence, and impact are in harmony, you naturally create growth in both your personal and professional life.”
Growing from the inside out—strengthens who you are, expands how you lead, and multiplies the impact you create.
“Three Elements That Shape Who You Are and the Value You Create”
“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we’ll ever do.” – Brené Brown
🌿 Identity – Embracing Who You Truly Are
Objective:
Discover clarity, confidence, and inner alignment so that every choice, action, and relationship reflects your authentic self. Identity is not just who you are—it’s the lens through which you live fully and lead intentionally.
Defining Identity in the 3i Life Journey:
At 3i Life, identity is the heart of growth. It’s the beautiful combination of your values, strengths, beliefs, and purpose that guides how you show up in the world. When you truly embrace yourself, you step into life with authenticity and intention. You no longer follow what others expect—you lead from who you are, creating influence and impact that is meaningful and lasting.
Key Elements of Identity
🌸 Self-Awareness
Slow down, reflect, and get to know yourself deeply. Recognize your values, patterns, and unique strengths. Self-awareness is the gentle power that lets you navigate life’s challenges with confidence and grace.
🌸 Authenticity
Show up as your true self—without masks or pretenses. When you embrace who you are, relationships deepen, trust grows, and your influence naturally flourishes.
🌸 Alignment
Let your actions, decisions, and goals reflect what you truly believe in. Alignment transforms energy into momentum, making every step feel purposeful and meaningful.
🌸 Personal Growth
Commit to learning, reflecting, and evolving. Growth isn’t a destination—it’s the ongoing journey of shaping yourself so you can create the life and legacy you desire.
🌸 Mindset
Nurture empowering beliefs that support your potential. How you see challenges, opportunities, and change shapes the way you show up in every moment.
Why Embracing Identity Matters
Your identity is the root from which influence blooms and impact grows. When you embrace yourself fully:
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Every choice becomes intentional
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Every interaction becomes authentic
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Every opportunity becomes aligned with your purpose
The journey of embracing your identity transforms not just your life—it ripples into your relationships, your work, and the world around you. This is the first step in the 3i Life journey: Embrace Me → Clarify Identity → Expand Influence → Create Impact.
🌿 Influence – Sharing Your Authentic Power
Objective:
Grow your ability to positively affect others while staying true to yourself. Influence is the natural extension of identity—when you know who you are, the way you impact the world becomes effortless and meaningful.
Defining Influence in the 3i Life Journey:
Influence is not about control, persuasion, or authority. It’s the way your authentic self touches lives, inspires confidence, and motivates others to grow alongside you. When you embrace who you are, your influence flows from your clarity, your values, and your actions, creating relationships and opportunities that reflect the best of you.
Key Elements of Influence
🌸 Self-Awareness in Action
Your influence grows when you understand how your words, actions, and energy affect others. Being aware of your own patterns allows you to lead with empathy and authenticity.
🌸 Connection
Influence comes from genuine relationships, not titles. When you connect sincerely, listen deeply, and care intentionally, others naturally respond to your leadership.
🌸 Communication
Speak from a place of clarity and heart. Influence is strongest when your message reflects your values and is received with trust and understanding.
🌸 Collaboration
Your impact multiplies when you lift others as you rise. Sharing knowledge, support, and encouragement strengthens your influence and builds a network that grows together.
🌸 Mindful Presence
Influence is in how you show up consistently—your energy, your choices, your example. Being present and intentional in every interaction increases the depth and reach of your impact.
Why Influence Matters
Influence bridges your inner growth and the difference you make in the world. When your influence is rooted in identity:
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Your relationships deepen
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Your leadership becomes authentic
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Your actions inspire meaningful results
Influence is the heartbeat of outward growth—what you do after embracing who you are. It’s where the “Embracing Me” journey touches the lives of others.
🌿 Impact – Creating Meaningful Change
Objective:
Use your identity and influence to make a lasting, positive difference in your life, relationships, and community. Impact is the natural outcome of living aligned, authentic, and purpose-driven.
Defining Impact in the 3i Life Journey:
Impact is not only what you achieve—it’s how your presence, decisions, and actions ripple into the lives of others. When you embrace yourself and lead with influence, the change you create becomes meaningful, sustainable, and inspiring.
Key Elements of Impact
🌸 Purpose-Driven Action
Focus on what truly matters to you. When your actions reflect your purpose and values, every effort creates meaningful outcomes that resonate deeply.
🌸 Service and Contribution
Impact grows when you prioritize giving over receiving. Serving others strengthens trust, multiplies your reach, and amplifies the positive change you create.
🌸 Integrity and Consistency
Your credibility is built on consistent alignment with your values. When your words and actions match, others can rely on you, which magnifies your influence and impact.
🌸 Collaboration for Greater Good
Partner with those who share your vision. Collective effort creates bigger, longer-lasting results than any individual effort could achieve.
🌸 Measurable Growth
Impact is seen in lives changed, problems solved, and communities empowered. Recognize the difference you make, no matter how small—it matters.
Why Impact Matters
Impact is the living proof of embracing yourself and leading with authenticity. It shows up in:
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Stronger relationships
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Inspired teams and communities
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Tangible, lasting contributions
When identity guides you and influence shapes how you lead, impact becomes the natural outcome—the legacy you create through your life and work.
BENEFITS OF LIVING A 3I LIFE
1. Clarity in Who You Are
Living a 3i Life strengthens your self-awareness and sense of purpose. Personally, this brings confidence, inner peace, and alignment with your values. Professionally, it allows you to make intentional decisions, lead authentically, and create a clear direction for your team or business.
2. Meaningful Relationships and Influence
By cultivating influence through authentic connection and communication, you naturally inspire and guide others. Personally, this deepens friendships and strengthens family bonds. Professionally, it builds trust, expands your network, and enhances your leadership effectiveness.
3. Lasting Impact Through Purposeful Action
Focusing on impact turns your growth into tangible results. Personally, you experience fulfillment from helping others and contributing to something bigger than yourself. Professionally, your influence multiplies, creating measurable success, stronger teams, and a meaningful legacy.
4. Alignment of Values and Abundant Growth
When your actions align with your values and you integrate identity, influence, and impact, you create a life of purpose and growth—personally bringing confidence, resilience, and fulfillment, and professionally building credibility, loyalty, and lasting success.
Your 3i Journey Starts Here
A Path of Embracing, Clarifying, Leading, and Impacting
Phase 1: Personal Coaching
Before leadership. Before influence. Before impact.
There is you.
Through personal coaching, you don’t just gain clarity — you rediscover your voice. You begin trusting your decisions. You feel lighter, more certain, and more at peace with who you are becoming.
What shifts:
You move from uncertainty and internal conflict → to self-awareness, peace, and grounded confidence.
This phase builds the foundation. When you embrace yourself, clarity becomes possible.
Phase 2: Retreats
Once awareness begins, alignment must follow.
Retreats give you permission to pause. To reflect. To breathe. You reconnect with yourself in a deeper way, often walking away with clarity you couldn’t access in the busyness of everyday life.
What shifts:
You move from burnout and distraction → to clarity, renewal, and purposeful direction.
This phase strengthens identity at a deeper level.
Phase Three: Activation — Workshops
Clarity becomes powerful when it turns into action.
Workshops create those “aha” moments. You leave feeling seen, equipped, and energized — with simple tools you can actually use in your life and leadership.
What shifts:
You move from insight alone → to confident implementation.
This phase turns self-discovery into daily practice.
Phase Four: Expansion — Entrepreneurial Coaching
Now your clarity expands outward.
In this phase, you begin aligning your leadership and business decisions with your values. You lead with intention instead of reaction. Your work becomes an extension of who you are.
What shifts:
You move from reactive growth and pressure → to intentional leadership and aligned success.
Influence becomes authentic, not forced.
Phase Five: Elevation — Masterminds
Leadership can feel isolating. This phase changes that.
In a mastermind, you experience accountability without judgment and growth without isolation. You expand your thinking, strengthen your leadership, and multiply your impact in ways you couldn’t on your own.
What shifts:
You move from leading alone → to leading with perspective, accountability, and community.
Influence matures here.
Phase Six: Ignition — Keynotes
This phase reaches beyond the individual.
A keynote is a spark. It challenges the way you think, affirms what you’ve felt but couldn’t name, and ignites a desire to lead and live more intentionally.
What shifts:
Audiences move from passive listening → to inspired reflection and intentional action.
Impact begins here for many.
